Why Size Matters and How to Make the Most of Your Assets

How To Make The Most Of What You’ve Got Down Below

Big Size Penis Having sex isn’t rocket science. It doesn’t take much to work out what goes where and what comes next. Good sex, on the other hand, is a COMPLETELY different issue. If you want to improve your performance between the sheets, however, you have to start by evaluating your end of the bargain. What shape is it? How long and wide is it? The key here is to be honest. If you aren’t honest, in the long-run you’ll only be letting yourself and your partner down. So objectivity is the key, which means you’ll have to measure yourself.

The idea of measuring yourself may be very disconcerting, but there’s no reason to fret. It only takes five minutes to measure the size of your penis and the angle of your erections; what’s 5 minutes of bother when you’ll be able to have great sex for the rest of your days? Once you know more about your size, there are techniques you can use to improve your sex life.

Sizing Yourself Up
It’s common for a man to go through life with very little idea of how big their penis is. Indeed, research indicates that men, on average, think they are smaller than average in the downstairs department. In a study by Dr Peter Lee, 26% of participants believed they had a smaller than average penis, while only 5% thought they were above average. The most accurate way to measure the size of your penis is to measure yourself in the same way a urologist would. Dr Hunter Wessells, who has studied penis size at the University of Arizona, has a few tips on how to do this. You can also compare your size with the average measurements below, as compiled from recent Australian and American research.
Flaccid Length

You need to do this straight after undressing, as room temperature can cause changes in penis size. Using a flexible ruler while standing, position the tip against where your penis shaft meets your abdomen. Do it while standing, and use a flexible ruler. Bend the ruler along the shaft and measure the length.
Average: 8.7 cm

Erect Length

As soon as you become fully hard, measure the shaft of your penis from base to tip.
Average: 12.7 cm

Girth

While you still have an erection, use a cloth tape measure wrapped around the base of your penis to measure its girth.
Average: 13.05 cm round; 4.24 cm in diameter

Erection angle

When you have an erection, stand with your back against a wall to estimate the angle of your erection. A zero-degree erection would point straight down; 90 degrees would point straight out in front; and 180 degrees would point toward your chin.
Average: 105.7 degrees

Make the most of what you have Once you have a better idea of the tools you’re working with, so to speak, you can learn how to use them to you and your partner’s advantage.
Erect Length

16.5 cm or more
Many men in this situation like the idea of being big, and assume that their partners feel the same. A large penis may cause pain if not enough lube is used, and having the back wall of the vagina struck hard during intercourse is as painful as bumping a testicle. So if you are longer than average, you might have to be gentler. Don’t thrust too deeply; even better, let her straddle you so she can control the depth and intensity.

11.5 to 16.25 cm
The vagina is incredibly sensitive, with most of its nerves located in its outer third. An average-size man can better pleasure this sensitive area by entering from the top while the woman lies with her legs flat on the bed. Your pelvises are prevented from completely coming together, meaning that depth of penetration is reduced. Also, when she extends her legs she ends up putting more pressure on her vaginal lips, increasing stimulation.

Less than 11.5 cm
According to sex therapist Dr Judy Seifer, “short” men have many options that longer men don’t. When a woman is in the first stages of arousal, her vagina over-expands to accommodate an object it doesn’t yet know the size of. After a short time thrusting, it shrinks back around the penis. If you concentrate on rubbing and grinding against her pubic bone, it doesn’t matter that you aren’t big; if anything, being smaller makes the rocking action more comfortable.

Girth

More than 13 cm
A guy with a thick penis and a girl with a small vagina can be painful mismatch if they aren’t careful. Although that’s rare for the problem to be extreme, men in this situation need to exercise caution, especially when going from foreplay to intercourse. How aroused a woman becomes during foreplay will affect how much her vagina expands. Moisten your penis before entering, and get her to guide you in gently.

13 cm or less
For men who are narrow, the buzz word is friction. This is more of a problem for men than women, with many men claiming they can’t achieve enough sensation. If this applies to you, the best position is one in which her knees are together and her vagina stretched from front to back. Although she can lie flat, tucking her legs up against her chest pulls her labia together, tightening her grip on your penis and creating extra friction. An excellent position for a man with a long, thin penis is to enter from behind while she lies flat on her stomach; this increases tightness and reduces depth.

Erection angle

90 degrees or more
If your erection points skyward, it has less flexibility and you need to be careful with it. It’s possible to fracture the penis, so don’t get too creative. Be especially careful when she’s on top. Also, “note which way you point, and consider the angle of your partner’s vagina,” says Seifer. If you thrust upward too deeply, you can give the woman the urge to urinate. If your angle is steep, ask her to sit up against the headboard. If your erection curves slightly towards the ceiling, you can rub her G-spot with your penis. Use the missionary position, but make shallow thrusts. Steep, stubby men have a dual advantage; they can stimulate the outer vagina and G-spot simultaneously.

Less than 90 degrees
Positions that don’t work for many other people – such as face-to-face sex, where the two of you sit and then lie back connected only at the hips – can be wonderful for you. Aim for maximum stimulation; for most men, this means the missionary position. If you point or curve to the left or right, be extra careful during sex: a misaligned penis can be very uncomfortable for your partner, and you run a higher risk of fracturing your penis. “A lot of men with penises that point to 10 or two o’clock find that sideways positions such as spooning work best at first,” says Seifer.