By far, most men prefer a straight penis to a bent penis. A man does anything just to make sure that the shape of his penis will be the shape of his preference. Normally, the penis is not perfectly straight.

Most penises show a slight bent upwards. Furthermore the curve of the penis can be caused by a lot of factors.

1. First is genetics. It is no secret that the shape of a man’s penis will follow that of his ancestors.
2. Next is accident, like the erect penis is accidentally bent during sleep that can cause the penis to be out of shape over time.
3. A disease known as Peyronie cause the penis to curve as well. A straight penis does look good and women are more inclined to have sex with someone who has a straight penis.

Incidentally, one of the turn offs of women is when they see a penis with a peculiar shape. This is one of the reasons why having an extremely curved penis is always a disadvantage. The thing about it is that the sexual intercourse will be very painful both for the man and woman.

The only advantage that a bent penis has is the sensation that it brings once it has entered the vagina provided the bent facilitate stimulation of the sensitive areas in the vagina otherwise a curved penis can give a man a lot of trouble.

Treatment for bent penis includes surgery. However the cost associated with surgery and possible complications tend to outweigh the benefits. That’s why more and more professionals are recommending straightening device.

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Gina was a writer for a now defunct magazine. I had read one of her columns over a year ago and was impressed that she had pretty much admitted in print that she and her boyfriend used to indulge in the triple play.

We were introduced at a party recently and I immediately set to work on her for one of my ‘panel meetings’ on this very topic. Last month, we finally met up. I had to apologized profusely to Gina about my inability to get anyone else to come along for the discussion. To my surprise and gratitude, she told me not to worry, she would bring ‘a friend’ of her own. She brought with her one of the cutest actors in town! Brad.

The three of us relaxed with a bottle of vodka. “Are you guys together?” I asked, feeling terrible plebeian and square compared to their obvious bohemianism. Well, of course not. If they were, they would not have come together to talk about threesomes, even with the guarantee of anonymity.

To start off, Gina, goes on to explain the difference between a threesome – which means sex, usually once-off, between three people at the same time, and a menage a trois – which means a ‘household of three’, a long-term liaison or living arrangement comprising of three persons in sexual relationship. Think Henry Miller, his wife June and Anais Nin.

Gina drew deeply on her cigarette. “I am polyamourous,” she announced and proceeded to tell us about her 5 year relationship with a Duct man which for two and a half years included an English girl.

“We had very long talks and mutually made the decision to establish a 3 person relationship. We even consulted a counsellor about it, and we were told that the long-term success rate is about the same as that of couples, meaning 50%.”

He also warned us about the drawbacks. “When the relationship fails, the threesomeness of it is blamed, even if it isn’t the real reason. Menages a trois happen usually because the people involved feel pretty secure about themselves but they still face challenges as well, like the lack of role models and social support. We live in a very hetero-couple world.”

In her case, she said that the three way relationship ended because the English girl, then at 35, the eldest in the menage, started to talk about commitment ceremonies and having children. “We were all living outside our home country then. The things she wanted opened a whole new can of worms. I started to ask myself, how would I bring her and the boyfriend and the baby to a reunion dinner back here?” The English girl left, and the pair separated less than six months later when Gina was head hunted back to New York.

Brad had been coerced over the indomitable Gina to provide the guy perspective which, as a writer, she knew I would need to balance her erudite perspective. The first thing he said was “I also want to get something straight. Me. I’, straight!”

As a ‘celebrity’ around town, and being terribly cute, he has had more than his fair share of offers from both men and women, sometimes together. “I’m not saying everybody does group sex, but it happens often enough, and it happens in all kinds of combinations and situations.” The most common, he says, are a couple in a relationship extending the invitation to another man or woman.

In a MMF equation, he has been both the guy in the relationship and the outsider. He has gone on ‘dates’ with the same girl as his buddy, and then taken turns with her, sometimes while the other watched, sometimes simultaneously. With the other guy, Brad admits he has gone as far as fondling, and even a little playful oral, “but like I said, I’m straight. No male-to-male penetration at all, ever.”

Ia a FFM situation, Brad is even more experienced. “Sleeping with two women or watching two women make out is every man’s fantasy…well, almost. But let me tell you something from a personal experience – it’s never going to be as enjoyable as you imagine, especially the first time. The first few times are always disappointing, sometimes problematic. Threesomes are a lot of work!”

Over the years however, Brad has come up with a few guidelines for himself. “Threesomes are not like regular sex. Threesomes need imagination and sensitivity to make sure everyone feels good – during the thing and afterwards! If you’re thinking about having a threesome, you better have some idea of what you’re going to be doing.”

“If you’re going to have sex with two women, understanding and respecting each other’s comfort levels should be a top priority. If your own partner is involved, you need to be absolutely clear on what she is comfortable with – in advance!”

Also remember that while your fantasy script runs along the lines of the two women giving you 100% of their attention, realistically they might want to please each other as well. “You might end up feeling ignored. If that happens, just keep busy and take matters into your own hands. Be helpful. Be patient. In threesomes, it’s kind of like a cycle of attention, and will get back to you eventually.”

Penetration, he says, is about you and one woman. Make sure both of them are comfortable with it before you do it with either one. Always remember there are three of you. “Even if I am done first, I still do everything I can to make sure the two ladies are satisfied. I believe everyone should be happy with the threesome experience. I don’t play favorites with orgasms, even if one of them is my girlfriend.”

Keep in mind that most people try to drink their way to bravery for a threesome but drunken sex usually turns out badly.

His last piece of advice is cautionary – play safe. Condoms are an obvious necessity, but it takes a pro like Brad to advise, when dealing with assorted insertions,”always use one hand to pleasure one woman, and use the other hand on the other woman. Don’t alternate. Same thing with penetration, use different condoms!”

STD Symptoms For Men

In men, symptoms of an STD are often outside the body. But problems can happen inside too. Common symptoms may include:

• Yellow, white, green or clear discharge or drip from the penis or rectum.
• Burning or pain during urination.
• Sores or blisters on or around the mouth, genitals or rectum.
• Lumps or bumps on the genitals.
• Itching on or around the genitals.Pain in the genitals or rectum.

Keep in mind, you may not have any symptoms. So get checked if you’re at risk of STDs.

As for the women, the warning signs of STDa can be hard to notice. That’s because the external female sex organs aren’t easy to see. STDs often affect the reproductive organs inside the female body.

Ways To Reduce Your Risk

The only sure way to prevent STDs is abstinence, not having any kind of sex. Now that’s hard!

Always use a latex condom

If you have sex, always use a latex condom. It’s the best way to prevent STDs. Males and females of any age can buy them from supermarkets, pharmacies or convenience stores. Most condoms are made for men, but there are also condoms for women. Be sure to get condoms that say they protect against STDs. And use a new condom each time you have sex.

Look out for symptoms

Remember, any kind of sex puts you at risk for STD. Look for signs of STD on you and your partner. Get checked if you’re not sure. And if you do have an STD, get treated. Tell your partner so he or she can get checked too.

Get checked

Getting checked is the only way to know for sure if you have an STD. You can get tested at a health clinic or doctor’s office. Test my include:

• a sample discharge from the penis, vagina, mouth or rectum.
• urine and blood tests.
• a pelvic or rectal exam.
• a pap test for females.

Get treated

Many STDs can be cured or treated with drugs. Early treatment can prevent things from getting worse. Follow all your instructions for treatment. And remember to:

• avoid sex for as long as you’re told by the doctor. Otherwise, you could infect your partner.
• adhere to your medications. And don’t share medications with your partner.
• go back to your doctor if your symptoms don’t go away.

A person can be infected with more than one STD, so it is important to get each one treated.

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The prostate gland is very sensitive to touch and other erotic stimulation, which is why gay men like to be anally stimulated. I don’t have to get into the gory gruesome details, but a plug or anything else that will go in there will eventually hit the gland and create an amazing sensation. YES BOYS! WE HAVE A G-SPOT TOO, and many of y’all are not discovering it!

I know many straight dudes are terrified by the concept of anything or anyone even going near their exit chute in any way, shape or form. HOWEVER! It does not make ya gay if ya try it or end up liking it. And if you is gay, then so what?! Why not enjoy sex to the freakin’ fullest!? Discover prostate massage, milking, and more on this most erogenous and erotic zone of the human male anatomy! In fact, you’re also delving into anal sex period, and there ain’t no crime against that! Go for it! Ask that hot kinky female next time to try ya out. Make sure you’re clean okay? Like, real clean so it’ll all be fun. Use plenty of lube. Be gentle at first and increase the penetration.

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In the off chance that you catch sight of your semen, expect it to be pearly white. But if it’s not, don’t panic. Some simple things can change your hue.

Clear. Ejaculate should become transparent after a few spurts. But if your initial ejaculate is clear, it means the seminal vesicles (which secrete the milky substance that makes semen congeal) aren’t doing their job. See a urologist.

Yellow. The pelvic muscles that usually seal off your bladder during ejaculation probably allowed some urine to escape. It’s not serious, but see a doctor if it happens often. It could be a urinary-tract infection, which can decrease your chances of conveying children. Urine can injure sperm.

Red or Brown. That’s probably blood from a small, broken blood vessel in your prostate. It’s like blowing your nose and seeing a little red. Ignore it. If it’s still red few days later, see a urologist to rule out infection or bladder cancer.

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As soon as she starts climaxing, slow your thrusting to about half speed. After each thrust, use your finger to press gently on her pubococcygeus muscle, which extends from her pelvic bone to her tailbone and surrounds the opening of the vagina. This muscle throbs during her orgasm; by stimulating it, you can intensify and prolong that incredible spasm. Some well-timed touches just outside the vaginal opening will buy her a few extra seconds. She may never leave.

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Now you know why the French call an orgasm la mort douce, or ‘the sweet death’. The endorphin release and hyperventilation that occur during orgasm have been known to make women pass out for a few seconds. In fact, some doctors call this common effect post orgasm blackout. If it happens only once every few months, after particularly great sex, it’s really nothing to worry about. But if she regularly checks out after having an orgasm, she should see a doctor. She could have a blood-pressure disorder.

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All is according to plan. She’s on the verge of orgasm.

What does it feel like? For her, the pre-orgasm sensation is otherworldly, ethereal. No wonder it’s often called peaking. I’ve heard it described as ‘teetering on the brink before falling off the edge’.

Everyone agrees it’s the best part of sex. But just because a woman reaches the edge doesn’t mean she’s going to have an orgasm. Unlike guys, women don’t experience the unrelenting, inevitable line drive toward orgasm.

Not only did every woman surveyed say she occasionally makes a dirty mental movie to cross the line, but there have been cases in which a mental movie was all a woman needed.

What ruins it for women is the pressure to have one. If you have this expectant look, or she feels like you’re doing something for her and not because you like it, any shot of climaxing flies out the window. To avoid that, concentrate on your own pleasure, and make sure she knows how good it feels to be inside her.

Of course there are times we’d just as soon forget the whole thing. When your partner says it’s okay not to have an orgasm once in a while, she means it. If you really want to up her odds, invest in that magic wand, the vibrator.

Phase 6: Climax

The most important thing to know about a woman’s orgasm is this: If she screams during the middle of it, she’s faking.

Here’s why: While climaxing, it’s nearly impossible to exhale. The female orgasm is not an explosion of endorphins and genital juices. It’s an implosion. She’ll draw her breath, tighten her muscles, suck every scrap of energy and sensation into the tiny nut core of her being and then give way exquisitely, the flow of goodness spreading up her chest and down her legs. Afterward, she might sigh or moan. But a scream? Never.

Phase 7: The Afterglow

This may be where you find the most variation in style. Although what women experience physically after orgasm is the same across the board – the genitals return to their normal state, and breathing and heart rates slow to normal – emotionally and psychologically no two women are alike. Some feel huggy and affectionate, others want to talk about life, others just wonder what’s on TV.

The best advice? Seal the emotional bond with a kiss, a compliment, a final squeeze. By the time you’re in your postcoital snooze, she’ll still be happily awake, thinking of you as the guy who really made a connection. And that means she’ll be eager to hook up again soon.

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The big train is gathering momentum. Now get a load of these physiological reactions:

Swelling breasts. You already know that an erect nipple is a good sign, but a woman’s entire breast can swell as much as 25% during arousal.

Swollen labia. When a woman becomes very aroused, her vaginal lips swell slightly and begin to move away from their usual position covering the opening of the vagina.

Widening eyes. There’s a reason they call the bedroom eyes. If her pupils are dilated, that could be a sign of sexual readiness.

Oral sex. It’s a lovely pair of words and most women can’t get enough of it. All women have different preferences during oral sex, so the best advice is to experiment. Use both sides of your tongue for example, or let your tongue go soft in such a way that you’d slur your words if you tried to speak. The problem with oral sex is that no matterwhat’s going on in a woman’s body, in her head she might be feeling insecure about how she smells or tastes. A simple reassurance from you that the neighbourhood is fine, “You taste so good”, should nip that in the bud, as it were. Many women are also turned of by the taste of their own vaginal juices, so don’t rush to kiss her immediately afterwards.

Generally speaking, the happy recipient of oral sex is willing to reciprocate for her man. I say generally because the act itself isn’t physically sensational for a woman. Your nether region may not recall a bed of roses. During oral sex, her lips can dry out quickly and chafe, and then there’s the gag reflex.

Phase 4: The Plunge

And now, the moment we’ve all been waiting for.

The moment of penetration is physically pleasant, like a parting of the waters. It’s not an invasion, more like a warm welcome. But, alas, the welcome mat doesn’t stay out forever. After a couple of minutes, the initial thrill of being entered wears off and penetration turns into another animal: intercourse.

Because the clitoris isn’t normally stimulated during missionary-position sex, and because there are a few nerve endings in the rear two-thirds of the vagina, most women don’t get a whole lot out of this physically. What to do about it? Kissing or breast touching can help, but the best solution may be to try a different position. Woman-on-top is classic for letting her grind to orgasm, but side-by-side or rear-entry sex, both of which allow her to stimulate herself while you’re inside her, are also effective.

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